How To Bring Your Life Back Into Control Following A Setback

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Life has a terrible habit of throwing the worst at you when you least expect it. You might think that you have hit your stride in life, when all of a sudden, something quite dramatic or tragic happens to upset the balance of your universe. 

When the worst happens, such as severe illness, a car accident, losing your job, the death of a loved one, a relationship breakup, or financial problems, it can bring us considerable amounts of stress. And, problems in one area of your life can soon send ripples out in all directions and cause you problems in other aspects. When stress spreads through your whole world, it can be hard to recover. 

For example, recovery from an illness or an accident may bring about financial problems, which in turn could cause strain on your relationships. This type of ripple effect can continue and your life can very easily cascade into becoming unmanageable. 

It is therefore important that you identify when you are in a time of crisis in your life, and put steps in place in order to effectively manage your life and regain control. 

Here are some great tips to help you bring your life back into control following a major setback. 

Seek The Help Of A Professional

Sometimes, the problems that we face in life may seem insurmountable. We have to be realistic and understand that with our limited knowledge and experience we may not be able to overcome them on our own. 

Reaching out to a professional organization that exists to assist people in your exact situation is not a bad thing. In fact, it is one of the best ways of helping you to get yourself back on track with your life. For example, if you have had a crash, a car accident attorney will help you to get compensation which will help to prevent the financial problems that are often associated with an accident. They will also be able to ensure you are able to get the best medical care and physiotherapy too. 

A couple’s therapist will be able to help you if you are facing relationship problems. Sometimes having an impartial ear to listen to both sides of the situation is helpful, and a therapist will be able to teach you to communicate and listen in an effective manner in order to iron out your differences. 

Reach Out To Friends And Family

The people in your life are important, and in times of need you should turn to them for help and support. Find someone to confide in. Reach out and ask a friend or relative for coffee and a chat and talk to them about the situation you are facing. Maybe approach someone that you know will be empathetic or have a particular understanding of your circumstances. You may not need advice from them in particular, but often having someone who can just sit and listen to you can help you unburden yourself of a great deal of stress and anxiety. 

Keep on talking to those that you are close to during your time of need. Stress, anxiety, and depression will all try to convince you that it is nobody else’s problem and that you can deal with things on your own. But you need other people around you in your time of need. 

Read Advice Online

Whatever the problem is that you are facing, there are probably countless people who are going through something similar right now. People who have come through to the other side often want to share their advice to help others. Look online for advice on your situation. You may find ways to become better with money or articles about dealing with grief. There may be online support groups that you can join or take part in order to better understand what you are going through. 

Self Care Is Crucial

When you are feeling down and life gets on top of you it can be easy to neglect yourself. You need to make sure that you are taking the best care of yourself that you possibly can during stressful times. This means paying attention to what your body needs and giving this to yourself. 

Eat well. Make sure that you are eating a balanced and nutritious diet that has plenty of fresh fruit and vegetables in it. You may be inclined to just eat comfort food that gives you a short term feel-good sensation, however, it is important to resist as this will generally result in feeling even worse when the good feeling quickly wears off. Make sure that you are sticking to eating meals at set mealtime.

Stress can cause us to lose sleep, but it can also be made worse by a lack of it. Make sure you are doing everything that you can to get plenty of sleep each night. Switch off smartphones an hour before you go to bed and use lavender essential oils on your pillow to help you to relax and drift off easily if you are having problems sleeping. You will ideally want to get eight hours. If you get enough sleep, your body will feel be able to cope with stress in a more effective way. 

Exercise is also important when you are feeling stressed, depressed, or anxious. Go out for a walk or a run and it will fill your lungs with fresh air, get your blood moving, and help you to produce the feelgood hormone, endorphins. 


Stress and anxiety can be crippling, and when you start to feel anxious you might not be able to focus on the things that you need to. Stop whatever you are doing and just breathe in and out slowly for a few minutes. The deeper you breathe, the better. This will help you to get oxygen to your brain. You will start to feel less anxious quite quickly and you will be better able to think about what you need to actually do. 

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